A Wax & CBT play

Game explained using Malesub:

Have the sub tied to a chair. If its one of the first times playing, make sure the sub can get out, else set off a safeword and respect it. Once tied, have a nice vibrator added as well as a cock ring. You can add earphones with your moans waving through, for a little extra intensity. Once you have everything set up and to the level of hard you want, allow for a nice 5 mins – 1hr extra just to really have the torture driven it.

Then slowly run fingers up and down your sub. Really do take your time. Its a nice precious quality time with your sub, so why not recite how all the subs freedoms now belong to you. How they are to obey and submit over and over. How the sub is to do as commanded. How only your pleasure matters

Once you have spent some fun on this. Get out a nice wax candle. Ask the sub if they would like to cum. Every time they say yes, drop a tiny droplet at the shaft. never to close to the tip so there is a chance it will get lodged in places. Repeat this a few times, once the sub catches on to it and starts saying they do not wish to cum, ask them why. If they answer correctly “Because only your pleasure Matters” give them a nice little choking if they are into to that, or maybe sit on their lap a little look out for the wax though and get right up close and ask them to repeat. Let them take in your scent and have them feel your breath on them.

Once you are satisfied they have learned, let them out of the chair so they can worship you in the way you choose and the way you desire. you can keep the candle nearby to drop a little wax on their back if you choose to have them between your thighs for worship.

The goal is to have them dripping themselves

For Femsubs:

You can amend this to a Femsub, by having the wax dripping over nipples, and have some nipple clamps for 30mins prior. A vibrator can still be applied as normal, and there are some interesting clamps designed for other areas then the nipples, if you want to try and intensify the play.