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Vetting
A foundation for any great dynamic Before engaging in any relationship (yes even one-night stand) you should do some basic vetting to check the partner you are engaging with is safe for your mentally and physically. For a dynamic or ownership this should be extended, and you should spend around a month playing to ensure… Read more
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Protocols
Ideas You can set up protocols for everything, and it can be so hot to have some required rules for the sub. It also provides for a fun punishment should they be broken, without anyone being upset. A few ideas to protocols can be around the caring aspect, such as ‘Healthcare protocol’ which gives ideas… Read more
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Pet Play ideas
Play suggestion for a day as a pet. First of: Choose a day (preferably weekend) where the sub can commit to this and you can commit to this fully. Set up allowances where if they have not been given permission within 15 mins they can go. Start the day by putting out two bowls, and… Read more
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Ownership rules
A basic guide on things to consider Ofcourse everyone knows this, but to state it. These should be consensual! Some things to consider: 1: How exclusive should it be? “You may have other partners”. “You should ensure to share prior to having other partners, or advise if you are going to an event where you… Read more
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Aftercare
MPS’ it: Mental, Physical, Spiritual When providing aftercare, it is important to understand, prior to the play, what your play partner(s) requires and needs from the aftercare. Some people a simple tea and a chat and others want a nice guided mediation. Find the sweet spot for yourself as well, so you can help your… Read more
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HMV
Naming arriving from the known franchise & originally stands for “His Masters Voice” but in our modern world, the H can also be ‘Her’ and the M for ‘Mistress’ The play is usually in the format of a threesome with some mixed in voyeurism. Two subs and a Dom usually. The Dom (therein the M… Read more