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  • Meet-up protocol

    A protocol for meeting up in real life It is always important to greet the Dom in the correct manner, and being trained and following the training will show the Dom you are excited to see them The below are some suggestions The rare occurrence style: The everyday expectation: There are different items to consider… Read more

  • Nettle Foraging

    To quote Tom Lehrer “Spring is here, suffering is here” Since the sun is out, so is the plants! There are some fun to be had in the nice new nature as it comes out to play. First things first, when foraging you have to KNOW the items you are foraging. Its not good it… Read more

  • Celebrating Holi-BDSM style

    Its always fun to bring a tradition to life in a new light.. be it a differently decorated “Christmas tree” or a more fun “Easter Bunny” hunt Holi is no different, and certainly one that works well inside the BDSM world. Its traditionally the celebration of colors, love and spring (here is your Wiki) Some… Read more

  • New Years Goals

    We all know about the pesky New years eve goals you make yourself that you never end up reaching.. well as a sub that it just not an option… Every starting January, I add in a day to ask my sub the goal for the year. I usually split into personal, professional and financially. Once… Read more

  • ‘Servitude’ Training for eager subs

    Whether you have just got your sub or you are a long standing dynamic, it never hurts to get your sub to tailor a daily task to you. In remote settings, keep this limited, as it can be time consuming in some of the below scenarios. The base idea is that your sub learns to… Read more

  • A week of ‘Anatomy of my Mistress/Master’

    A worshipping display of fun Especially fun if the sub has just come out of L’october, to do this, but make it edges only. You judge what you want however Each day of the week, you pick an area of your sub, that they should worship. In real life, your sub is meant to grind… Read more