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Abduction Kink
This kinks comes from the idea of getting kidnapped or kidnapping someone, and is a control/power play. Usually seen in your Dominant/submissive area with some fun added bondage or blackmail kinks added into it. Under no circumstance should this be done outside a play/fantasy arena where it’s complete consensual on both side. This would be Read more
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What is BDSM & kink
BDSM stands for Bondage, Discipline (though some say dominance), Sadism and Masochism. Kink is your sexual enjoyments. BDSM and Kink is sometimes thought of as something you have to be into however kink particularly covers anything that you can look upon as sexual enjoyments. This can be the ‘vanilla’ stuff too. Therefore most people have Read more
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PRICK
Personal Responsibility, Informed, Consensual Kink This is asking you to address the following: Who is accountable for this situation? Am I risk aware and informed about what will take place? Have i consented to this? Unlike the RACK and SSC, this is putting the accountability on each individual. This is both a positive and a Read more
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RACK
RACK Risk Aware Consensual Kink Similar to SSC or PRICK, this is a was of checking what you are doing in the BDSM space is safe. Here you should ask yourself the following Am I aware of what risk this will be associated with (physically and mentally)? Am I consenting to this? Are my play Read more
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Safewords
The best places to start is with a safe word. In BDSM there are a few models used for this. There is the Traffic light system, which operates on the green (all is good), orange (you need to slow down/change play) or red (absolute stop and aftercare). There is the basic Safeword which means, when Read more
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SSC
Safe, Sane and Consensual This is a simple but powerful checker for you Dom or Sub, you should always check your interactions follow this Is it physically safe for me to do this? Is my sanity at risk/is my mental health at risk? Have I consented to this? Another important part is keeping others safe Read more