BDSM stands for Bondage, Discipline (though some say dominance), Sadism and Masochism. Kink is your sexual enjoyments.
BDSM and Kink is sometimes thought of as something you have to be into however kink particularly covers anything that you can look upon as sexual enjoyments. This can be the ‘vanilla’ stuff too. Therefore most people have leniency towards this world, but may well not know it.
An example of a kink can be something as small as enjoying sending a cute picture of yourself to the full on deprived of certain freedoms and decisions.
As with anything in life, it’s always good to explore and educate yourself before dismissing an experience you may actually find awaken something within you. Some Kinks as well are for role-play and some are for living out. Abduction kink is a fun role-play for some, but should never be for living out real life.
If you are new to this world however, be mindful to study helpful tips and spend your time self discovering before jumping into the wilder and more extreme parts