Control Kink and good vibes

Weekly shopping can be a little boring compared to shopping for lingerie, but there are some ways to bring it up there on the fun scale.

The control part:

The meal plan aspect: The Dom can look at deciding, not just when to shop, but what to buy and even where to buy it. Making a meal plan for the sub, helps them avoid those ‘nasty’ freedoms that comes with decisions and it helps the Dom make sure its not all candy and good times. When deciding on the meal plan, consider adding in some of your favourite meals, so the sub learns to cook and create what is most desired. Plan in getting some treats as well, so that in the odd and rare instance that the sub does need to be spoiled, the items are right there to allow for it.

The Finance aspect: If the sub has commented or added to the new years resolution that they want to be better at the finances, it can be an idea to pick where they shop, and set a limit around the max spend they can do without the Dom’s permission. There are also helpful app’s such as Lidl’s where you can view receipts or check the monthly spend quickly and easy to match what is being used on groceries. This of course falls under the more extreme control kink, but isn’t that just why we all love it so! drools

The good vibes part:

I am sure you have already guessed where this one is going, but yes, there are some very fun items out there like your classic ‘Hush’ and other buttplugs and vibrators that can be remotely controlled over the great distance. Especially if you have a long distance relationship, it can be fun to plan this into your plans. You can then make the journey to the shop and back more interesting. If the control part interested your above, then consider a little tracking app here, so you can spot just the right time to add a little sensation.