Safe, Sane and Consensual

This is a simple but powerful checker for you Dom or Sub, you should always check your interactions follow this

Is it physically safe for me to do this?

Is my sanity at risk/is my mental health at risk?

Have I consented to this?

Another important part is keeping others safe as well, so ask yourself: are my play partner(s) able to say yes to these too.

If the answer is “no” anywhere, you must stop, even if it feels good. 2 out of 3 is not good enough either. All 3 must be yes. It is certainly possible to make BDSM safe on all 3 points, so there is no excuse to not insist on it.

Before starting any play, make sure you check through these 3 questions, so you know if this will be a safe space for you to enjoy BDSM in