This kinks comes from the idea of getting kidnapped or kidnapping someone, and is a control/power play. Usually seen in your Dominant/submissive area with some fun added bondage or blackmail kinks added into it.

Under no circumstance should this be done outside a play/fantasy arena where it’s complete consensual on both side. This would be illegal to do if not all parties are consensual.

A way to play with this kink is to create an agreement first with your play partner(s) around limits and a clear safe word. Once you have an agreement in place, there can be left some freedoms of the partner doing the abduction as to “you are allowed to abduct me on weekends, unless I have plans that I have advised you on” or by the grace of the technology gods, you can set a rule that “when I live share my location with you, it means you are allowed to abduct me”

Keep in mind public concerns here, as anyone witnessing what looks to be a suspected kidnapping have to report it. It can in addition be a very trauma causing thing to witness, so keep it private or consensual. Do not do this play in a public space with un-consented people around. You have private properties, alleys, forests, and there are plenty of ways to keep it consented, so there is no excuse for breaking this rule.

Keep in mind that you do not have to be all in when it comes to kinks. It may be that not everything is for you, but some parts are of interest to you and worth exploring.